Hi all, this is quite a petty stupid question. But it is something that does genuinely bother me. I am 30M in a relationship with a 35F. We have been together a few months now. Something she told me very early on in our dating is that she would send spicy snaps to her partners in past relationships (whilst she was with them, not now). And that she uses the secure folder on her phone to keep these photos of herself in, which makes sense.
Thing is, she has never sent me a single photo like that. She has taken pics in the bath, but always covered with something etc. And it bothers me because I have sent her explicit images of myself, but she has never reciprocated despite hinting at that being a past behaviour of hers.
Its not that I need the photos, because in all honesty I probably wouldn't even look at them a 2nd time. Because I can just see her in real life instead. It's more just the principal and the fact I worry about what it is ive done to not be eligible for these snaps? does she not trust me? have I done something to make her not want to etc? shes perfectly fine being completely naked in real life with me 🤣
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